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QW 052012 “My response to High School Guy”

http://www.salon.com/2012/05/09/how_do_i_tell_her_i_like_her/singleton/

So, your question is whether you tell the girl about your true feelings while risking your long-time friendship or keep it to yourself and regret it, right? There’ll never be one best solution or a perfect answer to it, as you might’ve known somehow. That’s the thing you need to keep in mind. No matter what you’d do or say to the girl, it’ll never what you’d expect it to be. If you gain something, you’ll lose something else. If you lose something, you’ll gain something else.

If you tell your true feelings to her, you’ll definitely lose the way your friendship has been; no girl will see you as the same “friend” as she’s been with once she knows you love her. At the same time, you’ll gain a chance to know whether she will love you back nor not; it may take a little while for you to get the answer, but time will tell. Even if the answer you’d receive never turns out to be the one you’d expect it to be, you’d lose nothing in fact; you’d only gain valuable experiences to grace your life beautifully and sentimentally.

If you keep your feeling to yourself, you’ll gain or “secure” the continuing friendship with her which allows you to be around her as a good friend. You’d gain the permit to be someone who’s close to her as a friend. On the other hand, you’ll forever lose to win her love to you, but who knows? She might be suddenly enlightened to know that you’re a very attractive guy that she’d be dying to go with.

That all being said, the “woman self” in me keeps reminding me that I should say you’d better wait for the time being. She just broke up with your male friend and doesn’t seem to start looking for a new guy, right? My guess is that she’s a bit confused or depressed with the way her first relationship ended and wants to cool herself off while distancing herself from all kinds of relationships. If I were her and you told me, out of the blue, that you loved me, I’d feel that you were cashing on my situation and consider that you were just another guy who’d be too clingy and start bothering me eventually. It might be an over-reaction, but it’s no wonder if the recent breakup makes the girl feel that way.

My bottom-line is; Wait. Just wait and be there to support her as a good, really good friend. Such patience will pay off in any ways.

(50 minutes / 430 words)

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